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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help fund Mefi! Help me give my first blowjob. November 18, 8: Give me some tips on how to try it out without embarrassing myself too badly. There's no particular reason why I've never done this before, except that my one long term relationship was with the free month match sort of guy want to give 1st bj just didn't care for them at all. Besides that my sexual experience is largely limited to a smattering of random hookups, which never felt like the right moment for "hey, want to enjoy my first-ever shitty blowjob?

I'm sleeping with a new guy now and I think he's great and I'd like to get over this hurdle with. I've tried watching pornos for this but they all just seem so I suppose Want to give 1st bj have to talk this through with my guy first and I'm honestly really embarrassed about being pushing 30 with no oral experience when it seems like most girls nowadays are experts at half my age. Want to give 1st bj am otherwise enthusiastic about sex and I'm pretty sure I'd enjoy giving BJs once I got used to doing.

I mostly don't want to be terrible and don't want to hurt. I also have an exceptionally small mouth according to my dentist, which want to give 1st bj particularly reassuring. Also have a pretty bad gag reflex so I think deep throating will be out of the question.

When I was in your place, I googled around and found detailed instructions on a site aimed at gay men, which was very helpful. I'm at work, though, so I'm not about to go looking for it again right now Also. Honey, do not over analyze.

Just grab it and go for it! I had the same want to give 1st bj but it went a long way to getting over it for me to realize that just having my mouth there was great for a guy.

Just don't, like, bite, and you'll be good.

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Do what feels ok. Use your hand on the bottom if you are worried about choking.

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You can want to give 1st bj the gentleman in want to give 1st bj for a lot of arundel women lesbian xxx guidance based on it being the first time you're giving this partner a blow job, without tipping your hand about the full extent of your inexperience.

Male preferences givs technique are about as varied as men in general so there's no danger of giving yourself away by not knowing "the obvious. Finally, a question in one of my areas of expertise!

Especially if you are nervous, start with a lot of licking, particularly around the base. From there, jb giving little licks up the shaft until you reach the head and then do a nice, long lick from the very base all the way up the shaft to want to give 1st bj head.

Do a lot of licking before you ever take it in your mouth; this will acclimate you and also is, I am told, very enjoyable. You will also probably get a lot of positive feedback in the form of moans and sighs. If you want, you can take just the head into your mouth for a moment.

You can do this a couple of times if it is well-received. After your licking phase think of this as basically blowjob foreplayyou are probably ready to take it into your mouth.

If you'd prefer, start with just the tip and suck on that not too hard!

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There is sometimes a spot under there that is especially enjoyable but don't wantt out about finding. Lick a little circle around the want to give 1st bj of the head assuming circumcision maybe a couple of times. This is the part where I would recommend taking the penis into your mouth as far as you feel comfortable.

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Don't do anything with which you're not comfortable! Don't rush it! Don't make yourself choke! Just take it as far in as you feel like want to give 1st bj kind of suck on it like a vacuum cleaner while you back off with your head. Do this a couple of times if it seems to be working. The main thing that surprised me when I first started giving blowjobs is how much the hands are involved as.

After you first get as much of the head and shaft into your mouth as you feel like doing, kind of suck on the head while you rub the shaft with your hand.

It should be nice and lubricated from your spit at this point and I recommend using the tips of your fingers on the underneath part of the penis because that's where it's particularly sensitive. Keep doing this, starting want to give 1st bj slowly and allure escort faster, for as long as it takes.

Some general tips: Drink lots of water and be sure you have plenty of spit available for lubrication and your comfort.

Listen to moans and be aware of when the penis twitches or. These are good dant. To be honest I've never spit so I'm meet horny women Port Campbell sure how that works but have a plan and don't be surprised if it tastes kind of weird. Eventually maybe you can get there gently but don't start out that way.

If you're with someone who's not an asshole, he will be appreciative and understanding. You can get good at it with practice and I doubt anyone will mind being your partner want to give 1st bj.

Good wqnt You can do it! Have fun! Pterodactyl at 9: Meant to add: I have a small mouth and have never received any complaints.

If the guy is a decent person, it'll be fine. If the guy is an asshat, well, pick givw guy? But treat it as a low-pressure thing.

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You're a real, live, warm person and this is something nice and fun that you want to do to make him feel good. Also, blowjobs are fun for the giver, at least in my world.

And sexy. Most guys aren't going to be unkind about it. Not a lot of complaining, there, and some of the blowjobs, to put it humorously, sucked. Some things I have found want to give 1st bj Take your time. You're not on want to give 1st bj clock, probably there are other activities planned for after, so don't be all "My god, I've been down here two whole minutes and he hasn't come waht Slobbery is mostly better.

Slobbery on him, slobbery on your lips. This is not a neat activity and if your lips are dry, they drag. Wet and slippery is really girls wanting dick in Trowell you want.

The drool running bm the 1at Makes your hand slide better. Many guys seem to feel the underside of the head of the penis is very sensitive, like, where the circumcision scar is a vertical line, kinda. If that makes sense. Use your tongue here and anywhere else interesting.

Uncircumcised guys have foreskin, that you can run your tongue under and play with -- it's a different kind bn interesting.

Also, the head of the penis is more sensitive on the uncut guys I've been. Guys are mostly visual dudes and they kinda like looking at you with your mouth on their penis. So, y'know, look up at the dude wwnt let him see you looking at. Want to give 1st bj guys do not seem to feel the wet slurpy noises are gross.

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Similar for the gaggy noises. It's all good, apparently, hj don't worry that much about having it be quiet. Ask for feedback. Ask for directions. If want to give 1st bj isn't being very forthcoming, do something and then ask if he likes it bive not. Sometimes "yes" or "no" is easier for want to give 1st bj guy to say than "take your balls in my mouth and roll them around with your tongue".

This is sort of assertive, but if he's not volunteering feedback, it's one way to get good information out of. On deep-throating: It is bjj, by way of practice and acclimatization, to teach yourself to relax the throat and slide something all the way down it.

According to my fella "your throat is a lot tighter than your mouth". I i love you beautiful girl in italian it impossible to breathe with a penis that far down my throat and I really, really like breathing.

Also, since breaths take me longer than one blowjob-thrust-equivalent, I have not yet found a decent way to manage any sort of ongoing deepthroat-fucking without suffocation resulting. I'm working on it but I may just be stuck with crappy white-girl rhythm skills. Oh.